Apologies

Ive been going through a messy break up. quizzing my self on the possible reasons behind why! it always comes back to me thinking it was me.

however when she says... i think we should talk about this, i manage to build up a tiny bit of courage, tell my self she isn't going to win again! i crumble at the last hurdle and not surprisingly i apologise for everything! now normally i would leave it there, but no... ill continue with what she has done to me! she starts to cry. 'I'm so sorry'... that was me speaking if you hadn't guessed, but come on, when do women apologise for anything? 'i crashed your new car, what! its your fault its so fast!' silly woman.

the purpose of this post is to, well get some advice i guess. no not to get a back bone! but what do you say or do to someone like that.

Any help?